Assalamu ala ala ala ala ala ala many of you know that my family has made

hajara to malaysia so inshaltai'a we're going to have some upcoming travel type videos on

cost of living here and you know schools rent things you have been asking and of course good food

right because Malaysia is full of it but um we have a temporary filming space for now for the next

one or two videos, but the

content will be the same. And if you clicked on this video, you're probably thinking,

sis, I already know what attracts good men. Be modest, be kind, pray. You know, your prayers

cook well. And you're not wrong. But those things matter, but let me tell you why you're

still single despite having all of that. You're missing two specific things that the good men, like the kind you'd actually want to marry, that actively that are looking for in your conversation. Now, I'm going to be brutally honest with you, as per usual. And if you don't have these two things, you're kind of going to be invisible to good men, even if you're beautiful, even if

you're practicing, even if you tick all the boxes for him. And I'm not going to give you fluffy advice. What I'm about to show you are two traits that separate women who get chosen from those who get passed over. And most women don't even know that guys are betting them for this stuff. You're going to be shocked. Let's go. Welcome to the Mindful Muslim Speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best version of yourself that you're always meant to be. I'm your host, mindful Muslim, mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 plus years and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide. Now I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your

problems on love, relationships, life balance, reconnecting with a less dependent with Aile, getting back

on track and more. So grab a cup of coffee and close out those tabs. These next 20 to 30 minutes are

all about you. Let's get started. Hey, I just want to share something pretty personal before we continue.

I used to be the kind of person that would start Ramadan and really excited.

Then I would slowly taper off and then flatline somewhere in the middle and then like try to get it back up before Ramadan was over.

And then I have all the guilt after because I lost the biggest

opportunity of the entire year to change my life with a less pen of that.

That no longer happens.

That was a long time ago.

So what we're doing is we're trying to share with you exactly what I did.

How I prep for Ramadan, how I do the whole 30 days.

We made an entire 30 day program.

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