Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

We protect the safety and security of our relationship at all times.

So if we're in a secure dynamic, we know that the safety and security of the relationship is primary, right?

And we do whatever we can to protect that.

And by the way, as we're reading these, as we're going back and and forth if something comes up of a question arises just feel free to kind of ask it

Yeah, okay? Number two

We are fully transparent with each other and tell each other everything.

We wanted to say something about this because there is...

Because it's activated the shit out of me when I first heard it.

So for the Anjus, of course, you would champion this, right?

Of course we tell each other everything at all times.

We are, you know, Suran Rapp.

And then for the avoidance,

was more like aluminum foil,

she's like, no, we don't have to tell each other everything all the time.

So, yeah, what does this look like to you and I'll tell you what it looks like to me?

Well, I don't think I want to be clear also.

I mean, yes, you can say this is a little bit more of an avoided thing,

but I also feel like without between the two of you deciding what this looks like because this is not

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