There's something that I've been seeing all over social media

for a few years now,

but really, really bad in the last year

that I really felt that I had to address here on Jelian Love, which is this really intense vitriol,

this hate that men and women have for each other.

And I see it in the comment section.

I see it in what people post on threads, Instagram, all types of social media.

I see constantly women posting things and commenting about all men being basically horrible and vile or emotionally unavailable

and just putting down men.

And then I see tons of men, putting down women.

It's a little bit more socially acceptable, unfortunately, for women to put

down men because we as women are, you know, this is just a fact. We are, we have been more oppressed

and physically victimized since forever. So men feel that they have to be a little

bit more careful. However, I see it all the time in my comment section,

well, that's because all women just want this,

or all women are like that.

Or, you know, come on, bro, she'll like, you know,

you better be careful, otherwise she'll manipulate you.

I mean, I see it in both sides, this constant putting down. And the thing is, as you know, I help people

in their relationships. I have helped thousands of couples. I have helped singles find love.

I've helped people recover from the most devastating heartbreak. I've worked with people just to completely

transform their relationship with themselves and learn to actually respect and love themselves.

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