Do you want to know the most dangerous moment in dating? It is the moment you decide you like

someone because it is precisely at that moment that we make the number one mistake that kills

someone's attraction for us. We put ourselves in the position of needing that person.

And somewhere in all of that,

we lose the very magic that will actually make us attractive to that person.

It's like our brain has decided that they are the prize

and our job is to win them.

And once you fall into that mindset that you're the one

trying to get something you've already given all of your power away today I want to give you a

solution to this mindset this bodily reaction that is completely involuntary and screws up our

chances of finding love before love has even had the

chance to take root. I am Matthew Hussey. If you don't know me for the last 20 years, I have been

helping people find love, build their confidence and live happily in their love lives, no matter

what happens. I wrote a book. This book, it's called Love Life. And if you haven't subscribed to the

channel, do that now while you remember, because I promise you I'm going to have so many great

videos coming out in the next couple of months. You are not going to want to miss them.

This is something that Brian Cranston, yes, Breaking Bad Brian Cranston figured out years ago. And he wasn't even talking about

dating. He was talking about auditions. But what he said doesn't just hold the answer to being a

successful actor. It also holds the answer to finding love. Let's look at what he said.

So I used to think that, well, I'm going in there to try to get a job.

But when you put yourself in a position of need or want, what happens is that you relinquish

power and control over to some unknown entity.

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