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Negotiate Anything

Stop Talking: How to Use Silence to Win Any Deal

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Education, Business, Self-improvement

4.7748 Ratings

🗓️ 2 March 2026

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Most people think negotiation is about having the last word. They’re wrong. In this episode, international deal-maker Varun Sharma reveals the counterintuitive secret he learned across 12 schools, 3 countries, and years of high-stakes government diplomacy: Silence is your greatest superpower. Varun has negotiated everything from luxury hospitality deals to international tax treaties between nations. He joins Kwame Christian to explain why the "typical" aggressive shark-mentality actually kills deals, and why being radically honest is the fastest way to build $90M levels of trust Connect with Varun Varun's LinkedIn Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!⁠

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0:00.0

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in certain states, prices subject to underwriting and health questions. Here's a negotiation skill

1:05.4

that almost nobody practices. That was it. It's silence. Not awkward silence. Not I don't know what to say silence.

1:14.8

The kind of silence that keeps you calm while the other person talks themselves into the

1:19.7

truth. A lot of times they say negotiation is the art of letting them have your way. And in this

1:25.5

episode, we talk about how you can do just that. My friend

1:28.7

Varum Sharma explains why silence is power, especially in sales and business development,

1:34.3

and how it helps you to control your reactions, stop chasing the outcomes, and keep your

1:38.8

confidence under pressure. We also talk about what to do when you're dealing with someone

1:43.0

aggressive, unfair, and straight up playing games.

1:46.4

If you want to negotiate better without becoming colder, louder, or more pushy, let's jump into this interview.

1:54.2

So, Varroon, I think a good place for us to start is by making it clear that you are not the typical negotiator.

2:02.3

Because we typically don't do super long backgrounds here.

2:06.1

And we're not going to go too long here.

2:07.7

But I think it's important for people to understand how you got to where you are

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