Stop Making THESE Relationship Mistakes and Find LOVE

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Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 3 November 2021

⏱️ 54 minutes

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If you have ever dated someone and created expectations long before a commitment was ever discussed, or fallen victim to being gaslit and thinking you were crazy because of the person you were involved with, this episode is for you. Being single is great when it’s your choice, and you have other goals that rank higher on your list of priorities. But, when being single feels like an involuntary life status and no one you date seems to be working out, what are you supposed to do? We’ve pulled together 7 Tips for dating and getting rid of unreasonable expectations to help you find love in a healthy relationship that allows you the space and environment you need to thrive. These 6 relationship experts break down everything from why you have to stop trying to be the problem solver when he tells you why he doesn’t have time for you to reasons why you have to start prioritizing sex and stop getting too far ahead of yourself. “Instead of going in with a curiosity, we go in with a conclusion.” Matthew Hussey SHOW NOTES: Tip #1 | You Get Ahead of Yourself [0:38] Bonus | Matthew Hussey’s 4 Stages of Importance [5:10] Tip #2 | You’re Not Actually Compatible [10:54] Tip #3 | You Don’t Know How to Communicate [19:07] Tip #4 | You Ignore Your Past [27:04] Tip #5 | You’re Not Mature Enough [32:33] Tip #6 | You Don’t Prioritize Sex [36:53] Tip #7 | You Lack Self Awareness [41:18] Check out our sponsors: Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:49.9	slash setup. It's very difficult, especially when someone's making us feel like we're overreacting,
0:57.4	to get impartial. Where is the line between me asking too much and me asking for the right amount?
1:03.2	You have to see dating much like you see interviewing for a job. You are hiring for the most important position on earth. And that position is for your
1:14.5	life mate. They've created an expectation in their mind for what this could be. Instead of watching a
1:19.7	story unfold, we've created the story before it's happened. We created a story that hasn't been
1:24.8	earned yet.
1:40.3	Life can be complicated and sometimes people will come up with all sorts of logical reasons why they can't invest right now.
1:43.3	Why they need to take a break, why they, you know,
1:49.0	whatever logistical difficulties there are in the two of you being together, you're far apart,
1:54.0	that person runs their own business and they haven't got much time, whatever it may be.
1:58.0	They may be giving you logically sound reasons as to why they're not able to give you what you want
2:05.6	or why they would be doing this, but...
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