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Women of Impact

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Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2024

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Welcome back to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES 130:53 Family dynamics complicate boundaries; break generational patterns. 132:43 Avoid discussing food-related topics; set expectations. 142:07 Hold boundaries for self-worth and safety. 143:35 Setting boundaries can revoke undeserved privileges. 152:58 Boundaries have shifted; reevaluation is essential. 154:34 Attempt to set boundaries led to escalation. 101:01:06 Shifted mindset: openness, curiosity, self-assured communication. 101:04:51 Embracing change transforms difficult family dynamics. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:23.8	What up my homie?
0:24.4	Welcome back to part two where we're diving even deeper into the utter chaos that sometimes
0:28.9	families dynamics can cause and go over how to actually handle them with utter great respect
0:34.8	but like a freaking boss so that no one can actually tell you what to do.
0:38.1	Now, even if the thought of holiday dinners with your family has you breaking out in sweat,
0:42.1	then don't worry because today's dream team of experts has got your back.
0:46.6	Now, I've got my girl Dr. Romney, I got Nona Jones, I got Ned Droglova toop,
0:51.2	I've got Melissa Urban, and I got the insanely talented Nicole LaPera here to help
0:56.3	and discuss how to handle those passive aggressive digs that show up every time you said at the
1:02.4	holiday table. We talk about the tools that you need to stop people pleasing once and freaking
1:06.5	for all, even if it's your mum or your mum in-law. I know that's going to be freaking hard,
1:11.7	but that's why you need to listen to this episode. And then finally we talked about how to set
1:15.5	boundaries that are so firm that even your nosy aunt, Carol, won't be able to cross them.
1:20.8	Guys, this is your holiday survival kit. In fact, I'm going to reword that.
1:25.3	Guys, this is your holiday thriving kit. See what I did there?
1:29.9	So no more walking on eggshells, no more biting your tongue, it's time to freaking show up,
1:35.0	stand tall, enjoy your holidays and protect your peace all at the same time. So let's dive in with
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