A random influencer, a friend who read something somewhere, your doctor.

It can be hard to know where to get trusted health information.

TED Health is a podcast that will help you focus on the stuff that you actually need to know to live your healthiest life.

I'm Dr. Shoshana Ungerleiter, a practicing internist, and I share weekly TED Talks from certified

health experts that break down the questions you're always getting different answers to.

Get the science-backed ideas for a healthier you with TED Health, wherever you get your podcasts.

This is a CBC podcast.

So give me the scoop.

So, I mean, after our last conversation, you know, we have that email from you that kind of,

I think part of me kind of felt you gave her a way out.

Can you say why?

Well, you talked about how, what people are age,

what the average amount of sex people are age kind of have.

And I kind of felt like it was her, well, if I can just achieve that, then I'm fine.

This is other people's problems, a show about therapy.

I'm Hillary McBride.

In this episode, we meet Steve.

As you're listening, it's important to remember that I'm Steve's therapist,

and what we talk about is best for him and no one else.

But while you listen, I hope you can find something to take away for yourself.

Steve is an individual that I started working with in individual therapy first because I actually started seeing him together with his wife. His wife was referred to me after the birth of their first

child and was experiencing distress in the relationship.

...