Steps You Should Take to Deal With Disrespectful In-Laws | Relationship Theory

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🗓️ 6 January 2023

⏱️ 22 minutes

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In-laws can be one of the most difficult factors about your relationship or marriage. They can be overbearing, intrusive, and outright disrespectful and unsupportive of you. What do you do when these moments of disrespect happen and how can you refrain from escalating the situation while still supporting your partner? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore the best ways to handle your disrespectful in-laws who just aren’t showing support for your relationship. They discuss how to stay supportive of your partner and not direct your anger at them, ways to spend time with your in-laws without escalating the situation, why you shouldn’t dramatically change for your in-law’s sake, and why other’s behavior shouldn’t determine yours. SHOW NOTES: In-Laws | Lisa and Tom discuss what to do when your in-laws aren’t supporting you. [0:40] Staying Yourself | Lisa shares her experience with her family when marrying Tom. [4:20] Advice | Lisa shares what to do to work through a situation with difficult in-laws. [7:29] Behavior | Tom discusses why you shouldn’t let predictable behavior upset you. [11:05] Reality | Tom and Lisa discuss the real world situation of being in escalating situations. [12:01] Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:56.8	Seriously, there is nothing more freaking challenging than facing disrespect with your in-laws.
1:01.4	Oh God, even just saying this how loud.
1:03.9	It like pains me to say, but oh my God, it's something that if you are in a relationship,
1:09.0	you're probably going to have to deal with it. And so in this
1:12.2	episode of relationship theory, you will learn what to do in this situation, how to refrain from
1:17.5	escalating and heightened emotional moments and avoid friction with your partner. Because as much as we
1:23.3	don't want it to happen, it may be inevitable that your partner's going to be involved with
1:28.0	the friction that maybe happens with you and your in-laws. And so we really do just be honest
1:33.1	about how you handle them. Do you expect your partner to show up in your relationship with
1:37.4	your in-laws and to support you? Or do you expect them to stay out of it? Do you expect them
1:42.2	to have your back? Or do you actually even
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