Start Your Engines Ep. 15: What if Lust ISN'T Every Man's Battle?

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2021

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

And we're back with a new 'Start Your Engines' episode! The whole team is practically here today, as Sheila, Keith, Joanna, AND Rebecca all join in to discuss this all too common teaching that 'ALL men will struggle with lust!'

Links to things mentioned:

The Great Sex Rescue! Pre-order it now--and if you want access soon, why not join our launch team? All you have to do is write a review for it, but you'll also get access to special Facebook Lives and more!
And don't forget to redeem your pre-order bonuses, including our scorecard and rubric for healthy sexuality!
Noticing is Not Lusting
12 Things Churches Can Do to Help Men Overcome Lust
Why Bouncing Your Eyes Doesn't Honor Women
Keith's epic post on lust
Twitter thread we read: https://twitter.com/laurchastain22/status/1163477025967017985

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0:00.0	Welcome to the bear marriage
0:07.0	the bear marriage podcast I'm Sheila Ray Gregwar from to love honor
0:09.8	and vacuum.com and we like to talk about how to make marriage a passionate adventure, not just a giant
0:14.6	to-do list and most of all we like to rip off all of the extras and all of the garbage that
0:19.7	has gone into our marriage messages and figure out how to make them Jesus centered.
0:23.5	And I am here with my husband Keith.
0:25.1	Hey, everyone.
0:26.1	For our Start Your Engines edition of our podcast, the last Thursday of every month, we like
0:30.0	to make this one specially going out to the guys out there who are listening. Thank you to our male
0:34.8	listeners. Our women listeners are of course more than welcome to listen because
0:38.6	this is going to be an amazing podcast. We are going to demolish a huge sacred cow in the evangelical world which is
0:45.3	that lust is not every man's battle. I'm so excited. As you know the Great Sex Rescue
0:51.6	our new book is coming out March 2nd and in that book we
0:56.3	surveyed 20,000 women and we looked at how different evangelical teachings affected
1:01.7	women's marital and sexual satisfaction.
1:04.0	And one of the messages that we looked at was
1:07.0	all men struggled with lust as every man's battle.
1:10.0	And we found that, as you might expect, that message hurt women's orgasm rates,
1:16.6	it hurt their marital satisfaction, and it just made everything worse.
1:20.3	And that's not really surprising.
1:22.0	I mean, if I were to tell you honey like you
1:25.0	know what babe? What's that? Today I really struggled not to have an affair. Yeah.
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