Spring Cleaning: Why Alpha Females Don’t Chase Guys
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 12 May 2021
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
With summer around the corner, it’s easy to have spring fever about boys and dating. But before you start swiping, texting or hooking up, I’ll give you a pep talk on why we NEVER CHASE. Plus, I’ll help a Shalligator who isn’t sure if she’s worked through her issues enough to get out in the dating game.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO podcast. I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:10.0 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:15.2 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week. |
| 0:19.4 | Gotta love quandary? Head to my website, |
| 0:21.7 | shaolinlesser.com to get connected, |
| 0:23.7 | and also shop my merch and take some fun quizzes. |
| 0:26.4 | Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, |
| 0:28.8 | and follow me on Instagram at Channel NXO |
| 0:31.0 | and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. Welcome back to the podcast, shalleners. We're going to kind of skip a mantra today, |
| 0:48.9 | and instead we're just going to embrace a little silence. I feel like there's not enough |
| 0:52.3 | silence in our lives. We're always so distracted. We're listening to something. I mean, you're listening to something right now. So it's okay to just take 30 seconds of your life of just stillness. And if there's a mantra that you've been kind of pinging around your brain this last week, feel free to sub it in. But if not, just try to sit inside that still space. So we're going to wiggle our jaw. We're going to roll our shoulders back. Shake those little boobs. Tug on your ears. Just get yourself in a relaxed state of mind a little bit. We're going to breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth. In we go. |
| 1:30.4 | And out through the mouth. |
| 1:35.0 | We just want to hold that breath at the top of the inhale and then release all that bad energy, all that bad air. |
| 1:36.8 | Get ready to receive the message one more time. |
| 1:38.8 | In through the nose. |
| 1:43.8 | And out through the mouth. Well, before we get started, just want to remind you that I get all of |
| 1:48.4 | these questions from the Shaligator Reddit thread. There's over 3,000 of you guys on there right now. |
| 1:52.7 | It's so fantastic. It's a great place to collab. Head on over there and join. You guys post |
| 1:57.6 | questions of your own, funny memes. You always respond to each other. It's just |
| 2:01.4 | such a cute little sisterhood. And speaking of sisterhood and collaboration, come to Mexico |
| 2:07.6 | with me. We are going on a shalligator getaway to Tulum, Mexico. I partner with Influencer |
| 2:14.3 | travel company, Trend 45. And we have just split out the third week, which is June 27th to July 2nd. |
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