Tinder 101: Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 5 May 2021
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Dating apps are a great way to meet guys…and an excellent way to completely waste your time with f*ckboys! I’ll tell you red flags to look for in a boy’s profile, plus help one Shalligator who isn’t sure if her new Bumble boy is all in or all trouble!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO podcast. I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:10.0 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:15.2 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week. |
| 0:19.4 | Gotta love quandary? Head to my website, shaolin lester.com to get connected, and also shop my |
| 0:24.6 | merch and take some fun quizzes. |
| 0:26.4 | Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, and follow me on Instagram at |
| 0:30.2 | Channel XO and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. |
| 0:43.6 | Welcome back to the podcast, Shalogators. Well, this week we are going to be talking Tinder. We're going to be talking dating apps, Bumble Tinder, because your girl is out there. |
| 0:50.0 | I'm out swiping around. I don't want a boyfriend, but I also don't want to like roam the earth alone, like the Incredible Hulk. Like I'm kind of looking for something in between. And so I'm tindering around and just seeing what's out there. And holy shit, do I have a lot of opinions? But when do I not? Also, we're going to talk to one of you shalligators who is having a bumble sort of breakdown |
| 1:11.9 | with a bumble boy who she can't tell if there's a ton of red flags, if there's no red flags. |
| 1:18.8 | Why don't you go ahead and guess what the answer is? |
| 1:20.9 | But first, let's do our mantra. |
| 1:22.4 | Okay? |
| 1:23.4 | Sometimes our mantra is very esoteric. |
| 1:25.4 | Last week, it was let go and let God. |
| 1:27.7 | This week, it's head, not heart. |
| 1:32.2 | I'm thinking with my head and not my heart. |
| 1:35.5 | Or like your pelvis, right, your vagina. |
| 1:38.0 | We're not going to think with anything but our head. |
| 1:39.9 | That's the only bodily organ we're focusing on. |
| 1:42.8 | So let's get relaxed. |
| 1:44.5 | Let's get into our relaxation stance. |
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