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Dharmapunx NYC

Spiritual practice in relationships

Dharmapunx NYC

josh korda

Religion & Spirituality, Buddhism, Religion & Spirituality:buddhism

4.8886 Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2015

⏱️ 22 minutes

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0:00.0

Meta is the wish that all beings including yourself will achieve happiness due to the skillfulness of your action.

0:09.0

So Meta is not wishing that yourself or somebody else will just be rewarded with luxury riches and power or material success,

0:21.0

it's actually a wish that each of us would act in a skillful, harmless, beneficial, altruistic

0:27.0

kind way so that we will live in minds that are peaceful.

0:32.0

And indeed, we can learn from modern neuroscience and all the work of neuroscientists who've demonstrated

0:39.8

that the human brain actually does have altruistic circuits which reward us for

0:45.4

acting in ways that benefit the tribe that we're connected to because if you think

0:50.8

back over the course of human history, those of us that acted in ways that were altruistic,

0:57.0

benefited those to whom we were connected, those beings, those humans would have survived, passed on their genes.

1:04.0

And so, as we've evolved over the human endeavor on this planet,

1:10.0

those, we basically hardwired the brain to feel better when we act in ways that are not causing harm.

1:18.0

When we cause harm to others we feel either shame or the mind becomes riddled with self-justification to justify our selfishness,

1:27.0

so it's far easier to simply act in ways that are benevolent.

1:32.0

And so the Buddha is wish for goodwill is simply reminding

1:36.7

ourselves that it's very peaceful if our overriding attitude is to wish that all of us will act in kind, skillful ways so that

1:46.7

we will achieve peace.

1:47.9

So when goodwill encounters beings that are suffering, it naturally responds with compassion.

1:56.4

Compassion is the second fuel of the Brahma Vajara's.

2:00.4

Compassion is the desire to see other people's unskillfulness to stop, a wish to see people

2:06.4

act in a way that will increase their chances of lasting peace and happiness.

2:11.8

It's also compassion is largely what motivated the Buddha to leave

2:16.6

the bliss of his Enlightenment and to go around to Schlecht. He Schlecht about teaching the Dorma when he could have just sat there under the Bodhi

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