Welcome back to As for me in My House. I'm Jordan and I'm Molina and we are bringing you guys a very special

episode today. We're actually in South Lake Texas at the XO Marriage Headquarters and we have dear friends here we're just

kicking it hanging out and they're like hey if you guys want to shoot a

podcast episode we can transform the studio and give you this really cool you know beige

London background. Malayna heard that and she's like I'm here for it.

So they're super sweet and super kind to to host us and to have us here and we're

we're honored so honey where are we talking about today?

We are going to be talking about speaking life or speaking death over your children.

We've recently introduced some new habits and rhythms in our household that I feel like has really transformed our mornings and our nights and we kind of just wanted to share that with you guys.

So the new thing that we have started to do is every night we start our morning or well okay

every night we start by blessing our children and every morning we start off with speaking life over them and there is a slight difference

in the two and the way that we came about this was first we reached this point

where nighttime always just seemed like 5 PM rolled around and were like

It's like white knuckle it to get the kids into bed and yes if we if we could just hold on tight enough then we're exhausted. We're we're running on fumes we don't have time for each other. It's like it's like 8 o'clock at night. We're like I'm wiped like how do we redeem the evening?

How do we get our kids into a rhythm and something that's fruitful and beneficial so that we're not

dreading the evening hours, right?

And we're actually looking forward to putting our kids in bed and letting them know the last

words that they're hearing from us before the days over is giving them life versus

like just screaming at them or if I have to come in here again you know or stop talking or go to sleep now like

slamming the door and all that like that's that's not what you want your kids to remember as they're growing up right and so

thank God we got convicted of that really quick and we're,

so we're like, all right, Lord, you're putting this on our heart, you're burdening this. So what is this going to look like then? What's the practical side of all this?

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