I amla, your host, your guide, a teacher for Sam, and a soft place to fall for others.

And I was a miserable failure in my relationships until I love myself enough to be able to share my love with other people.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Blessings and greetings welcome to the R-Spot. My guest today is Reginald Lewis, the soul matcher, and he says that his

life's mission is to inspire, educate, empower, and elevate humanity, helping souls to heal and evolve through the infinite

love and wisdom of spirit so that they awaken to their full potential.

Well that's a big big tall order if you just want to have a

relationship. But Reginald and I are talking about what makes that happen. He works on the

heart and I'm working on the mind. So together we make a

perfect match. I wonder if he wants to marry me. No, just kidding. But I do see an opening for a common question and that is what stands in the way of people really connecting and finding the love they so desperately desire.

Reginal, what do you think?

It takes time to meditate, to contemplate, to internalize what I call soul searching.

I'm very big on soul searching. You know,

I always tell people I said, I always asked people I said, have you done any soul

searching in your life and what does that mean to you?

Because you will see that a lot of people,

they realize that they've never really taken the time

for themselves, with themselves, you know. They go by people are living on automatic mold rather than manual

mold, you know, they're living life like machines, like blocks, you know, and letting everything

else influence them rather than them being in control aware of themselves and influencing themselves, you know, and being aware.

Awareness is key. Awareness is everything. I'm big on that and that's how I approach my work

through personal awareness. How aware are you of yourself?

Because I truly believe that there is power and knowledge and self-knowledge and self-knowledge and self-awareness. So many people walk around with so much baggage, so much drama, so much pain and hurt, not realizing that they're walking around with this and that they are living their life

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