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Welcome back. I'm Rebecca. And I'm Gabe. And we have fun news, don't we, babe? Yes. Oh, my goodness.

More marriage news in the Alliance family. The year of love. That's right. With you and me,

but also our offspring. Yes. So not only do we have our son and his wife. Yeah.

Just three weeks ago, but our daughter got engaged this past week. I know. I know. It's wild.

And you and I have been keeping so many secrets for the last couple months with her.

She's a private investigator. There is nothing that you get by this girl. So it has taken just like a Herculean effort to make sure we're dodging her on every front.

I know. Kids these days, they track each other, you know, boyfriend and girlfriend. They know where everybody's at at every moment. You cannot possible, you can't even go to a store to buy a ring without, you know, the girlfriend seeing it if they're kind of keeping up with these things. Yeah, at least for our daughter. Yes. And so Kennedy Rose. Yes. Kennedy Rose.

Our secondborn. Nope.

She's our youngest of the two boys.

No, she's not.

We adopted one.

I know.

I know.

I mean, our youngest biological daughter.

She's third in the birth order, let's say that.

But her and Providence became engaged.

And, you know, when I first met Providence and she told me about this boy named Providence,

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