Sibling Strife - When Your Child Keeps Hating On Her Little Brother

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 September 2020

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

A parent writes that her 5-year-old has never recovered from the arrival of her younger brother (now 3.5 yrs). “Since he was born, she has subjected him to physical violence and verbal taunting.” She describes her daughter as bright and strong-willed, and her son as gentle, loving and forgiving. She says she has tried everything to help her daughter manage her emotions more appropriately, including psychologists, but the behavior persists no matter what she says or does. “It breaks my heart.” She believes both her children are in pain and she’s looking to Janet for advice and perhaps some strategies she hasn’t tried. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books. Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	My favorite thing to hear as I'm wrapping up an extensive consultation or a group session
0:05.4	with parents is when they say, now I can't wait to see my child and trial this out.
0:11.8	The secret to finding more ease and joy in caring for our children is a perspective shift.
0:17.0	It's about the way we see our children and understand our role in their lives.
0:21.5	And unfortunately, quick tips and strategies and sound bites, they can't make this shift
0:25.9	for us.
0:26.9	We need something thorough.
0:27.9	We need the whole picture.
0:29.6	I've created the resource that will give you that.
0:32.0	The No Bad Kids Master Course.
0:34.7	You can check out all the details at nobadkidscourse.com.
0:36.6	Hi, this is Janet Landsbury.
0:43.8	Welcome to Unruffled.
0:45.3	Today I'm responding to a question from a parent.
0:49.4	She has a five and a half year old who she says has never recovered from the arrival of
0:54.6	her brother, who is now three and a half.
0:57.6	She says since he was born, she's, quote, subjected him to physical violence and verbal
1:03.0	taunting, which continues to this day.
1:06.0	And she often says she hates him.
1:08.6	She's concerned about her daughter and her son, who she feels is very hurt by this behavior.
1:14.4	She says waiting for emotional maturity and impulse control to develop does it disservice
1:19.0	to both siblings who are looking to meet and provide a compass through the storms.
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