My favorite thing to hear as I'm wrapping up an extensive consultation or a group session

with parents is when they say, now I can't wait to see my child and trial this out.

The secret to finding more ease and joy in caring for our children is a perspective shift.

It's about the way we see our children and understand our role in their lives.

And unfortunately, quick tips and strategies and sound bites, they can't make this shift

for us.

We need something thorough.

We need the whole picture.

I've created the resource that will give you that.

The No Bad Kids Master Course.

You can check out all the details at nobadkidscourse.com.

Hi, this is Janet Lansbury.

Welcome to Unwraffled.

Today I'm going to address a concern that parents often share with me and usually it's

in the form of questions.

Like, at what age will my child stop doing these fill in the blank, impulsive behaviors?

Or when can I expect my child to be able to self-regulate?

For instance, stop having tantrums, stop flying off the handle, stop losing self-control.

When can we expect more consistent kindness or manners?

Or at least that our child stops lashing out at their sibling or yelling rude things

when they're upset?

And they know better by now?

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