Should You Tell Him You’re Dating Other Guys?
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 16 November 2016
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
You’re really into this new guy you’re seeing, but as much as you’d like to take things to the next level, he hasn’t even mentioned commitment. So like the smart Get the Guy student you are ;), you keep your options open and continue to go out with other guys. Now you have a dilemma: Do you tell Mr. Maybe-Right you’re dating other men? And, if so, how will that impact your budding relationship? In today’s episode, I show you how to handle yourself in a graceful way that doesn’t use the situation as an ultimatum, yet still shows him how much you’re in demand.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Matthew Hussey and this is Love Life. If you've ever felt like you didn't know the |
| 0:07.3 | right words to say to a man to create attraction and chemistry, then you can't afford to |
| 0:12.9 | miss what I have for you at the end of today's episode. Stay tuned, because I'm going to |
| 0:17.6 | hand you five phrases that are so simple yet so powerful with men that you're going |
| 0:22.6 | to be furious at me for not giving this to you years ago. |
| 0:27.4 | We have a caller on the line today, Christina, are you there? |
| 0:30.4 | Hi, I'm here. Hi, Matthew. |
| 0:32.4 | Hello, how are you? |
| 0:34.4 | I'm good. I'm really excited to be able to ask you this question because I haven't found |
| 0:38.5 | the answer on all of your videos. |
| 0:42.1 | Really? And we've done a lot of videos, so this must be a wonderful question. |
| 0:47.8 | Yes, so I am taking your advice and I'm dating multiple guys and I'm keeping my options |
| 0:53.5 | open and I have no problem telling the guy maybe that I am not into, but I'm dating multiple |
| 1:00.0 | guys and there's other people. But when it comes to the guy that I'm interested in, I |
| 1:04.6 | have a hard time being as honest. |
| 1:08.0 | What brings on the conversation about dating multiple guys? |
| 1:13.1 | So I was dating a guy and another guy came back in the picture who I hadn't seen for |
| 1:20.2 | a couple years and where normally I tell guy, oh, I'm seeing other guys and this is |
| 1:26.6 | fine. I'm looking for the right one. But with this particular one, I didn't want him |
| 1:32.2 | to know because I thought it would be kind of an intimidation or an ultimatum. Hey, |
| 1:37.4 | you know, you're not the only one right now and you better treat me well. And so I struggle |
| 1:43.2 | between whether to tell them or not to tell them. |
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