Matthew Hussey here with Love, Life, Quick Question for You. Do you know the nine words

that you can text a man that will make you completely irresistible to him? No, I'm

not talking about sexting. This is much more intelligent because it allows you to keep

your standard and drive him crazy with desire at the same time. I think you can guess what

it is? I'll come back to this at the end of the show today, so make sure not to miss

a minute. There's a particular thing that's been bothering me lately, and it's when

I hear people talk about what they're entitled to at work. When I hear people say, I've

been working somewhere for so many years, I should get this. I should get that. This type

of language frustrates me firstly because I hate the words I should. I should have

this. To me, the language in there is so weak. Firstly, no one cares what we should have.

No one cares what you believe you're entitled to. All that matters to other people is how

much value we actually add. That's what matters. And too often, especially in companies, I hear

people talk about what they're owed by the company because they've been somewhere

so long. I've been working there for seven years. How dare they do this and this? Well,

sometimes I feel like firstly, you didn't do those seven years as a favor. You got paid

for those seven years. That wasn't you doing it out of charity. You were there seven

years because you got paid. No one cares how long you've been a company. That's not the

thing that matters. What matters is how valuable you are today. And if you're not rating

yourself based on how valuable you are today, you're going to lose out. You're always going

to lose out to the person who comes in and adds more value to the person who can bring

more. The moment we start feeling entitled, just because we've been somewhere a long time,

just because we think we've earned our place over time, the moment we get entitled is

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