Should You Offer to Pay on a Date?
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 24 February 2016
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Summary
It’s a delicate dance… You’ve had a romantic dinner with the guy you really like and then the check comes to the table. Do you reach for it? Feign searching in your handbag for your wallet? Let him pick up the tab so you don’t bruise his ego? And if you’ve been dating for a while, does this change the dynamic? I’ll share the secret thoughts men have on this issue that they would never tell you, and give you specific advice of when and how you should “treat” your man.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love Life, I'm Matthew Hussey. Now do you ever feel like you're stuck in a rut? We all do from time to time. The problem is just going through the motions cuts off our ability to grow and increase our happiness in life. |
| 0:17.0 | Now what would happen if you actually began living each and every day with purpose? |
| 0:22.0 | Let me tell you, it is possible to transform your life from ordinary to extraordinary and it doesn't have to take months or years, but just a matter of days. |
| 0:32.0 | Stick with me till the end of the show and I'll tell you exactly how to do it. |
| 0:37.0 | We are getting into the habit of taking some questions now. We want to hear from some people live and find |
| 0:43.7 | out what they want to know and I believe we have Rachel on the line today. Rachel are you |
| 0:48.5 | there? I am here. Hi. It's such a pleasure to have you on the show. |
| 0:53.0 | Thank you for having me. |
| 0:54.0 | You're very welcome. |
| 0:56.0 | What's your question? |
| 0:57.0 | Well, I want to know, so I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now and there's always that awkward moment when the girl feels like |
| 1:05.2 | they should start paying. So I just want to know at what point do we start insisting on paying for the |
| 1:12.4 | guy? Have you offered to pay so far? start investing on paying for the guy. |
| 1:13.0 | Have you offered to pay so far? |
| 1:15.0 | Not yet. |
| 1:17.0 | Not yet. |
| 1:18.0 | And how long have you been dating did you say? |
| 1:20.0 | It's been a few weeks. |
| 1:21.0 | A few weeks. |
| 1:22.0 | Okay, so you haven't really offered yet but you what |
| 1:24.4 | what feeling is it in you that means you'd like to start? I just feel like I |
| 1:29.6 | want to treat him to something you know he's been so nice at the beginning and I feel like I should |
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