Hi everybody. Thanks again for tuning into my podcast. Today we're going to be talking about if you should give your guy

that you're dating an ultimatum. So this is for you if you are dating a guy for a while and you're

wanting to take things to the next level and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him

and he hasn't really been on the same page like either he's saying

he's not ready for it or he's not sure or just like not really committing and you're wondering

if you should give him an ultimate him like hey either we're going to take things to the next level

and we're going to be in a relationship or we're breaking up. And I'm going to tell you exactly

what to do. So another way of saying ultimatum in this context is offering a relationship.

So if I were to rephrase the question, okay, he's not showing me that he wants to be in a

relationship. Should I offer him a relationship with me one more time? he's not showing me that he wants to be in a relationship. Should I offer him a

relationship with me one more time? That's basically what you're asking if you're asking me if you

should give him an ultimatum. And so, as you can see, my answer is no. You should not give him an

ultimatum. And here's why. We think that we're showing strength by saying

either you love me or you leave me. But really, it just shows that a relationship with you is still on the

table, even when the guy that you're seeing isn't treating you in the best way that he can

and is flat out saying that he's not interested in being in a relationship with you.

So in his mind, he's thinking, I just told her I don't have time to be in a relationship or

I'm not ready for a relationship. Why is she now offering me a relationship? Or I just told her that I want to

continue seeing other people. Why is she even more keen on trying to get me to settle down now?

So if you have ever been in a situation where you feel like you need to give him an ultimatum,

my question to you is, why are you even considering being in a relationship with him at this point?

If you're in a situation where you feel like you need to give him an ultimatum,

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