Hey everybody. Thanks again for tuning into my podcast. Today we're going to be talking about guys that don't value your time.

So if he's canceling last minute, if he's repeatedly late, if he's setting updates the day of,

or he's taking the time that he actually does spend with you for granted, then this episode

is definitely for you. So the first thing you need to realize is that he doesn't have to value your time.

You have to value your time.

And that's really true in relationships, but it's also really true in your career,

with friendships, in any area of your life, people don't have to value your time,

and they won't unless you do. If you value your time, he has no choice but to value it as well,

or he's going to have to miss out on spending it with you. If he's, for example, extremely late,

you just might make other plans instead or you might leave. And you guys, this is coming from personal experience because I set up a date once

with this really cute guy and I was actually the one to approach him and things were going really well

and texting and all that. And so we finally set up some

time to meet. And I went into the city and he was like, okay, I'm actually running a few minutes late.

I'm really sorry. I was like, okay. And then one hour later, he was still making me wait.

Well, not making me, obviously, but telling me, no, no, no,

I'll be right there. I'll be right there. I was like, seriously, because I've been waiting

here for an hour. He's like, no, I'll be right there. I think in total, he was more than an hour

late, and I was the dumbass who just, like in the city alone doing nothing, thinking that he was

going to show up like any minute. And looking back, I can see that the reason I did that was because

I really wanted him to like me and I didn't want to mess it up. But actually, in the long run,

he would have respected me more if I said,

listen, I'm not going to wait more than an hour for you to show up to our first date. And probably I would

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