The virtue should she warn her ex's new girlfriend about what he's really like or should she just mind her own business?

Hey Emily.

Hi, how are you?

Good. How are you doing?

I'm good.

I could turn.

What's going on?

Okay, so I was married for four years and my ex husband was incredibly nervous.

He was really enthusiastic and emotionally abusive.

He made my life like literally a living hell.

I was so miserable.

He beat down my self-esteem so much that I had to go to therapy to deal with it.

He was incredibly controlling and it was just a really, really bad situation.

But I was able to break away from it and put my life back together.

I've been divorced for a year now.

I just kind of wish I would have known sooner and maybe it was my son's and family when I met him.

But recently I found out he started seeing a single mother and she has a kid.

Someone I know, not a lot of fun or anything, but someone I'm familiar with.

And I feel kind of obligated to warn her about him, but I just don't know if it's my

place or if she'll believe me or if I'll come off more like jealous and bitter.

It's kind of like if it were physical abuse rather than emotional abuse, I wouldn't even

question it.

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