The virtue. Oh, you guys are bringing to heat with your emails lately, man. What a way to start a Friday show. Is she crazy

for considering dating her deceased husband's son? That's how we are gonna start the show today.

At the gate. Right out. That's what we know. That's what we're doing.

Christians got the email. All right.

Bert Moe, Davie and Kristen, I have reread this email a thousand times and keep thinking and keep asking myself

do I really want to send this?

But I could really use your help and would value everybody's input.

I'm a long time listener and appreciate you all starting the podcast since I no longer have a commute to work in all caps.

Please, please, please!

Keep this anonymous. I'm already embarrassed enough just sending this.

I'll do my best to be concise and get to the point where husband passed away six years ago.

It was devastating and it was unexpected. It was the second marriage for both of us.

We were together for seven wonderful years.

Sorry for your loss, by the way.

About six months ago, a woman reached out to me on Facebook. She was looking for her son's father.

She specifically named my departed husband and had details about where he lived prior to being with me.

To say I was shocked was an understatement.

We converse a little more and sure enough, my dead husband had a child out of wedlock during his first marriage.

The woman who I was talking to on Facebook had been his mistress.

I think an important fact is that he didn't abandon this child. She never told him she was pregnant.

Because she was the mistress, she felt that was right move at the time.

So I had to be the one to break the news to her that he passed away years ago.

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