The virtue so our producer Cairo was telling us that he does something when he's out on dates that alleviates his

Anxiety, but it could be very often putting to the women that he's dating. I think they probably are hey Cairo

Hey guys

Yeah, so I okay, I do this in the studio. I know Mo you see it every day

I mean I usually have in my left ear I

Have an air pod a wireless earbud in my ear and it plays music. I don't know why I I'm just not a public speaker

I'm not really a speaker at all, you know, there are thinkers in the world there are speakers and then there are doers

I'm in the latter catalog. You're a doer category. Yeah, I'm a doer. Okay. I'm not a talker. I'm not a thinker. I'm a doer

Like honestly when I first started dating I just didn't say anything and it worked, you know pretty well

I'm not going to lie

Less was more huh

Yeah, I don't speak they fall in love with me

But lately, you know, I've I've been in a couple relationships and I've struggled to

Connect with them and I realized like I kind of got to get over my

anxiousness of

Talking to people just in general like I'm content with just being saying nothing

But it's not really because I don't have anything to say. Yeah, it's just I'm not a great speaker and it's stressful too

There you are one on one with somebody brand new you don't know anything about them

When you think about it like what dating is you're one on one with a brand new person you don't know who they are

They don't know who you are and essentially at the end of the day you really want to be accepted so badly

So it's nerve-wracking. I can understand why it's causing you anxiety

Yeah, plus air pods and like these new earbuds they make it so easy and as my hair

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