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All right, Abby, lots of worries about you getting into a relationship in your head, huh?

Yeah, I'm worried I'm going to get brainwashed because I hear this one thing from women

and relationships all the time and it's so frequent that I've begun to be a little bit apprehensive about this whole love thing

like I'm starting to wonder like maybe the relationship thing just isn't for me.

So I've had this conversation with friends from back home.

I even had this conversation with Kristen the first time we met,

came up in our little chit chat,

and I ended up having this conversation

with a bridesmaid last weekend who was

talking about how she just got engaged and we were talking about her relationship and

there's something that happens within a friend group like once one person gets

engaged they all sort of follow suit just like little robots and so I'm in this

Circle of girls at the bridesmaids like luncheon or whatever and we're all hanging out and I'm chatting with one girl about her

relationship and she's talking about the beautiful way that you know her fiance proposed and it was so wonderful and I'm talking to another girl about it and this one girl I talked to at the bridal shower a couple of weeks ago and me and her were both

in the same camp when it came to how we viewed how we want our relationships to go.

We're both in a very specific group of women that are deciding to be child free.

And it's something that is just personal to us.

We think it's great if other people want to have kids,

but for us it's just like not the way we want to go and so we really bonded

over that at the bridal shower we sat next to each other we chatted about you know

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