I wouldn't be a birch show, a daily birch show if we weren't talking about cheating at

least once. So what's going on in your life? You want to share with us here because in

this case, she's not really sure if this is cheating or not. So hit us up at the birch

show.com. Kristen's got the email. Am I cheating? My heart says I'm not, but my head sometimes

thinks I am. My husband and I got married four years ago. We've been together for eight.

A couple of months ago, I went out with some girlfriends. They were all getting hit on.

Not once. Didn't anyone approach me. Of course, that's fine because I'm a happily married

woman. But you can't help but have your feelings a little hurt when all your friends

are getting attention except you. I ended up talking to the bartender a majority of

the night. When I checked my Facebook page the next day, I saw I had a message from him.

For the last few months, we've been having conversations, not of a sexual nature, but

we have shared intimate and personal details about each other's lives. He's really easy

to talk to. We've never exchanged photos or said anything I would consider inappropriate.

I know my husband looks at sexy pictures of women on social media. He also has friends

who are women. People can have friends of the opposite sex, right? Should I be concerned

that this bartender tracked me down on Facebook? We did have a really nice conversation at the

bar and it's been even nicer to continue it on Facebook. Again, in my heart, I don't

feel like I'm doing anything wrong. But the longer this continues, the more my head starts

to wonder if what I'm doing is out of line.

Okay, you know how I keep saying that when people get caught when they get cheated, they're

like, oh, I just made a mistake. And I always say, no, what you did was you made a series

of really bad choices, right? And the overall scheme of things, it's a mistake. But here

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