The virtue. So her boyfriend is best friends with his ex-wife, which I guess is okay, right?

But he wants to take the ex-wife on a trip to Hawaii.

Best, did you have best friends with his ex-wife? Her boyfriend is best friends with his ex-wife.

So I guess they realize like, hey,

this friendship works, but the marriage doesn't. So we'll stay friends.

And our listener who's dating this dude is wondering, is it cool if he goes on vacation?

With his ex-wife asking if it's shady or not.

Shady or not, the virtue will decide. Are you shady? You will be vetted. Shady or not, the virtue will decide.

If you shady, you will regret it.

Yeah, again, this would take a level of emotional maturity that I don't have.

No, I don't have it there. I could even get through the teeth. I would really love to be that

person that trusts and can maintain their ego and insecurity, but I'm not. I want to be,

but I'm not. I have the email reads, can you help me settle something or at least let me know if

you think I'm right. Your opinion may or may not change my boyfriend's mind, but I would at least

like him to know that you think this isn't right either. My boyfriend has an ex-wife.

They got married when they were really up. I think they were 21 in college.

Their parents didn't even know that they had gotten married. They also didn't have any money,

obviously, for all these reasons they never went on honeymoon. This is about to get stranger.

He's told me that she had always wanted to go to Hawaii. So right after they alobed,

his roommates helped him surprise her by decorating their entire apartment to look like Hawaii,

with cheap decorations for the party supply store. That's sweet. That's very cute.

That is. Then his roommates left for the rest of the weekend so they could have their

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