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Religion on the Mind

“Sexual Wellness” or Spiritual Abuse? (#361)

Religion on the Mind

Religion on the Mind

Religion, Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality

4.7542 Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

Definitely don’t play this one with kids around! I’m sitting down with journalist Ellen Huet to explore the rise and fall of OneTaste, a San Francisco wellness startup that built an empire around "orgasmic meditation"—a 15-minute sexual practice wrapped in spiritual language and trademark Silicon Valley business savvy.  Ellen, who wrote the exposé that helped trigger an FBI investigation and whose book Empire of Orgasm releases tomorrow, walks me through how founder Nicole Dadone created a company that promised enlightenment through sexuality, borrowed heavily from Buddhist and tantric traditions (while naming their practice "OM"), and attracted a devoted following among tech workers and entrepreneurs. We get deep into the “ick” of how spirituality, commerce, and exploitation all worked together, discussing how implicit manipulation can be more powerful than explicit demands, why people stayed despite red flags, and how OneTaste's playbook mirrors both traditional cult dynamics and the modern wellness influencer industrial complex.  From "unconditional sex" experiments to forced labor convictions, this conversation reveals how spiritual abuse operates in startup culture and why the future of cult-like control might look less like rural communes and more like your Instagram feed.  Fair warning: this episode includes frank discussion of sexual practices and exploitation. ___________________________________________ Follow Dan on IG: www.instagram.com/dancoke/ Or Twitter: twitter.com/DanKoch Faith deconstruction resources: www.soyouredeconstructing.com/ Join the Patreon for exclusive episodes (and more) every month: patreon.com/dankoch Email about the "sliding scale" for the Patreon: youhavepermissionpodcast@gmail.com YHP Patron-only FB group: tinyurl.com/ycvbbf98 Website: www.dankochwords.com/yhp.html Join Dan's email list: www.dankochwords.com/ Artwork by sprungle.co/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:17.0

Astoned. You should be a detective.

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0:22.5

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0:25.9

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0:46.2

Welcome back, everybody, to Religion on the Mind, the show that focuses on the overlap of psychology and religion and spirituality.

0:48.3

I'm your host, Dr. Dan Koch.

0:56.1

I'm a licensed therapist and psychology of religion researcher, specifically a spiritual abuse researcher, which is going to be relevant to our conversation today. And what I'll say before I introduce my guest is

1:02.8

this is maybe not a great episode to play with children or even maybe teenagers around depending

1:10.2

on how open your family is in talking specifics about

1:16.1

sex.

1:16.6

We may be referencing particular body parts.

1:19.7

And of course, there will be talk of exploitation and things of that nature.

1:23.5

But specifically, I'm just thinking of age appropriateness.

1:26.8

So be forewarned listeners. I am joined

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