Sex Is For You Too

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7 • 885 Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2021

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

We want you to understand that sex is for you too! This is an idea we discuss frequently in our episodes, but today it is our focus.

Why do we even need to have this conversation?
Why do so many women struggle with the idea that sex is for them?
Is it okay for sex sometimes to be primarily for one spouse? If so, when and how would that work?
What can you actually do to make sex for you as well?

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From the Bible

What does the Bible say about sex being for you too?

Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you—
if you find my beloved,
what will you tell him?
Tell him I am faint with love.
– Song of Songs 5:18

Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,
    let us spend the night in the villages.
Let us go early to the vineyards
    to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
    and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
    there I will give you my love.
The mandrakes send out their fragrance,
    and at our door is every delicacy,
both new and old,
    that I have stored up for you, my beloved.
–Song of Songs 7:11-13

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. – Ephesians 5:31-32

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0:00.0	Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives.
0:03.0	I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.
0:06.0	I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.
0:09.0	I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.
0:11.0	And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.
0:14.0	Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.
0:18.0	Welcome to another episode of Sex Chat for Christian Writers. and let's chat.
0:25.3	Welcome to another episode of sex chat for Christian wives.
0:29.4	Today, we want you to understand that sex is for you too.
0:33.1	This is an idea that we discuss frequently in our episodes, but we've never devoted an entire episode to it.
0:36.7	So today, that's our focus.
0:39.3	So ladies, let's start with this question.
0:41.9	Why do we even need to be having this conversation?
0:45.6	Well, do you want the centuries of history on this?
0:50.0	The condensed version.
0:53.4	So there's been a prevailing idea for way too long that men have this sex drive and women do not have as high as sex drive.
1:03.7	And therefore, sex is really about men.
1:07.3	So this has been an idea that has both been in church and been in secular culture. You know,
1:13.8	you could trace back to some things like a lot of research that was done based primarily on men and
1:20.3	how the sexual response cycle was based on men more than women. But you could also look at how men talked about sex and conveyed that
1:31.6	in church as being something that was primarily for husbands and how their wives were therefore
1:37.7	supposed to be, you know, good spouses by giving them what they want. And I've heard so many
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