Sex For Rewards #758
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 December 2025
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual relationships within marriage, particularly focusing on the idea of sex as a reward system.
We explore the potential pitfalls of this approach, including the impact on desire, compliance, and the overall connection between spouses. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining a playful and honest dynamic in sexual relationships, rather than reducing intimacy to a transactional exchange.
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On the Xtended version …
There are pitfalls to treating sex like a commodity or exchange system - so what can we do instead?
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio alongside my wife, Pam, who's been a world traveler lately. |
| 0:08.6 | Yeah. |
| 0:08.9 | And so she's a little jet lagged. |
| 0:11.8 | She's had a lot of airplane time the last two days. |
| 0:16.5 | And it's so good to be home with you. |
| 0:18.4 | And she's got Hena all over her hands. |
| 0:20.6 | I do. It's pretty cool. So if you're on YouTube,'s got Hena all over her hands. I do. |
| 0:21.5 | It's pretty cool. So if you're on YouTube. |
| 0:41.7 | Well, it hasn't switched over to you, though. You've got to keep talking. So there's a camera. Oh, yeah, I got to talk. So, yeah, I see all the fun. And she got the whole Indian wedding experience all last week. And so it's great to have a chance to recover and get back together again. |
| 0:46.4 | But at Sex and Marriage Radio, what we're trying to do is just speak straightforward and honest about what goes on in marriage. |
| 0:48.8 | And this is going to be a fun one because this is, we've had in the past, where there's almost been a exchange-based concept |
| 0:57.1 | for sex of like, if I do this, then I'll get this. |
| 1:00.4 | Right. |
| 1:00.6 | Like there's this component. |
| 1:01.5 | Chore play fits into this category. |
| 1:04.1 | But what about the reverse of this where a question came in about my wife and I, we have a decent sex life. |
| 1:12.5 | It's usually pretty good, but I would like more frequency. |
| 1:15.7 | And she's on board with the sex for the most part. |
| 1:19.6 | But she actually proposed, what about a sex for rewards challenge? |
| 1:26.0 | Where if we have sex more, it earns me things. |
| 1:32.5 | Jewelry weekends away, you know, whatever it might be that fill in the blank. |
| 1:37.9 | Okay. |
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