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Goddess Confessions

Self Validation is KEY

Goddess Confessions

Sheneka Adams

Self-improvement, Education

4.8962 Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2020

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

Seeking validation will keep you trapped . You don’t need anyone or anything to approve of your worth. When you understand this, you’ll be free. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/goddessconfessions/support

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0:00.0

Hey, it's your girl, simply Shanika, and you are now listening to The Goddess Confessions. the goddess confessions. The only validation that you need in life comes from within. It is extremely important for you to understand that if you don't know yourself, other people will try to tell you who you are.

0:38.0

And then at that point, do you even really know who you are?

0:42.0

Some of us go through life on a journey trying to

0:47.4

fill a void, feel a hole that's inside of us, whether it be buying things, whether it be other people, whether it be in the form of whatever.

1:00.0

A lot of times we're seeking external validation and that is what keeps us

1:05.9

stagnant in life. Let me tell you something right now, okay? Nobody can validate you. Nothing you can buy, nothing you consume, nowhere you go can

1:20.5

can validate you if you don't feel the self-love from within.

1:25.7

This is why having your own mind is very, very important,

1:31.4

especially in today's world. I feel like a lot of us are losing

1:37.3

originality and losing sight of what even to do anymore because we all are being brainwashed with the same stuff every day,

1:51.1

how to look, how to dress, what's popular, what's not popular. If you don't

1:55.7

have that, then you're not good enough. If you don't look like this, you're not good enough.

2:01.3

Oh, you don't have a man in children by 30. Okay, something's wrong with you. Oh, all of your validation lies and being chosen. You know, all of these many, many different things, especially as a woman that are shoved down our

2:15.4

throats to make us feel like unless we have all of these things which is

2:21.3

extremely impossible then we cannot be complete in this world.

2:27.0

I remember when I first started my journey one of the things that I had to do was break down a lot of the walls that I have

2:34.2

built up you know basically reprogram my mind to what suited me best because a lot of things that I knew a lot of things that I were told were wrong and they did nothing to help me become the best person that I could be that is a journey that you have to take yourself. Nobody else can

2:56.7

take that journey for you. You know, one of the most important things about self-validating yourself is that you won't accept any type of

3:07.3

treatment in life. You won't accept it. I feel like a lot of people allow themselves to continuously accept mistreatment from people

3:18.6

because either they're afraid of speaking up for themselves or they just don't know that what they're

3:24.7

experiencing is wrong and this brings me back to one of my favorite books that I

3:31.0

absolutely love right now and I encourage you all to read it.

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