Hey, it's your girl, simply Shanika, and you are now listening to The Goddess Confessions. the goddess confessions. How to be more confident how to gain confidence how to find it where is it? It's there somewhere

We just got to you just just gotta find it right?

Listen having confidence is very very important especially as you're leveling up because

confidence will open doors for you. Confidence will take you places.

Confidence just makes you feel good overall so it's very important to feel good about yourself and truly believe that.

The first thing that you have to realize is you cannot care about what other people think about you.

That is the number one thing.

We have to get out of our heads and stop worrying about what those who don't mind and matter have to say.

You know, the only people's opinions that should matter are those who want to see you excel in life.

And hey, there's nothing wrong with constructive criticism.

If it's coming from a good place.

I don't mind if my friends call me out about things or if they, you know, say,

hey, you know, what are you doing?

You're looking a little crazy over there.

Girl, what's going on? You know, I don't mind it because I know that it's coming from a genuine place.

But I'm talking about those people who are not being genuine, those people who truly don't care.

They just want to criticize you and belittle you and harass you and make you feel bad about who you are as a person, we don't care about those people.

You have to let their opinions slide off of your shoulders. You have to because our minds tend to focus a lot on the

negative instead of the positive. You know people can give us a hundred compliments and

then that one negative comment or remark will take us over the edge and

nothing else that they said, you know, none of the positive things that they said matters anymore.

It's because our brain has just been wired to react more to the negative than the positive.

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