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That first date after you've been, you got out of a long-term relationship or a marriage,

it's so anxious, inducing, man. so much anxiety because you've been with the same person you

know their habits they know you're comfortable right then when you go out on that

first date you're just not exactly sure what to expect

and you're so anxious.

So Ali goes out on this date after a long-term relationship and

she thinks the date goes great and then he just ghosts her so she's awfully confused.

And this really sucks as your first date

after your long-term relationship

because you're like, oh, what did I do wrong?

How do I correct it for the next one, even though you might not have done anything wrong at all, right?

Ali, good morning, you're on the birchia.

Good morning.

Good morning. Good morning. Oh.

So sheepish. You okay?

Okay, little buddy.

Yeah, I recently went on my first date ever. I'm newly 30 and I've been in a relationship with my high school

sweetheart from the time I was a senior to the end of my 20s. So it's been a really long time. I know and we broke up on the terms. We just roommates.

So it was really hard, but we had been together for so long.

It was hard to give each other up but ultimately it was a

good mutual decision and we're still friends so that's good But now I'm 30 and I'm on a dating app and I'm just

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