So Kristen found this on Instagram yesterday and I am very curious to hear

women's reaction to this because it could go one of two very extreme ways.

I don't know what it is about the video that drew me in but I read the entire

caption and obviously then immediately went to the comments but it was a video that Ali Valiton had posted,

and it's a video of her man,

and it's just a video of him,

and it says, one of the hardest conversations

we had while dating was when my husband told me he was struggling to find me physically attractive.

Oh my God.

Yeah, so she just got a video and she posts that and I'm like, oh, I'm reading this caption because she's like, Deets in the caption.

So what Ali wrote is, we have been dating for roughly a year

when Elijah came to me and told me he was struggling

with how little effort I put into my physical appearance

with a sweating emoji face.

I know before you either want to flame Elijah or question how brutal I looked, sit tight for a second.

See, I had been on a journey of discovering and uncovering what it looked like to truly

love myself.

It had been a mixed bag of questioning my body image, being extremely critical on myself,

and letting go a perfectionism.

I thought I had come a long way in the realm of loving myself, and honestly I had, yet

there were still some deeper layers that needed addressing.

Alizha knew he was pressing on a sore subject.

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