SC 98 - Evolving Men's Sexuality - From Porn To Presence - Destin Gerek

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2017

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Do you ever use sex to avoid closeness? Do you know what happens when a man who is called the Erotic Rockstar hits a wall and falls apart? In this intimate episode, we explore these questions and hear a man's vulnerable and raw answers. You'd be surprised at some of what he has to share. There are some nuggets in this very edgy episode. From politics to porn, we cover a lot of ground. Listen to my guest Destin Gerek share his very personal story of overcoming his ego, feeling his emotions and heart, and then sharing what he's learned (and learning) with other men.

SHOWNOTES

The most important role men can take to help women flourish [26:00]
Why women are usually more emotionally accessible than men [31:00]
Getting support from other men [33:00]
Knowing when the answer is to ‘leave’ [35:00]
How to speak so he’ll listen (and hear your hurt) [38:00]
The dangers of ‘programming’ yourself with porn [40:00]
Noticing the positive and negative effects of porn use [43:00]
Why you should remove the word ‘performance’ from your vocabulary [46:00]
For men: how to immediately get more present during sex [48:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	When there's an endless stream of women,
0:02.5	but how can anyone hurt me? So, Hey, what's up guys? Welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast.
0:28.0	If you're new, welcome. What's up?
0:33.6	If you're returning, thanks for coming back.
0:38.2	All right, pour yourself a gin and tonic,
0:41.2	a glass of wine, a cup of tea perhaps a coffee or just good old
0:49.2	fashion water without ice and kick back and enjoy because you're about to get triggered
0:59.3	potentially and informed and educated about how relationships really work.
1:05.0	That's really what this podcast is about.
1:07.0	And it's for people who want to look at themselves and understand that if you want a good relationship we face the man or
1:16.2	woman in the mirror because that's what's going to do it at the end of the day is
1:20.4	you facing your own stuff and that if you have a willing partner, them facing
1:25.2	their own stuff and the two of you together connecting and disconnecting and
1:30.4	disconnecting and disconnecting and connecting and slowly learning the dance
1:35.5	of how long-term partnership really works.
1:39.2	Because it's a, sometimes it's a dance.
1:41.6	Sometimes it's a UFC fight perhaps and sometimes it's a slow trickle of
1:48.8	you know something that's just okay in your life.
1:53.0	But I'm here to tell you.
1:54.8	A partnership can be one of the most exhilarating experiences of your life,
2:00.0	and it can be the thread that keeps you facing every challenge left and right that's coming
2:06.9	your way because you have a lot of challenges in your life.
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