SC 93 - Does His Size Matter?

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2017

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Here’s a good question from a listener. Essentially it’s about physical attractiveness and size. Check it out:

Question: I’m newly interested in a man after being single for 4 years, I have a 5 year old son. My biggest issue is getting over the ‘drug-effect’ of having someone new and really discovering why we should or are together. I’m all about getting the ‘high’ and attracting guys who are physically fit and are the perfect eye candy to have on my arm. Right now the guy I’m seeing is just the opposite and I’m having a hard time with it.

Not only that, but his package is small and the sex is not good at all. In fact, he has not been able to even be turned on by me enough to have intercourse. That really hurt me, so we have not had sex since. I’m looking for ways for us to strengthen our relationship after this experience and advice on how I can get past not having the physically fit man on my arm.

What happens if your man has a small penis… and can’t get an erection? [8:00]
We attract what we most need to learn [9:00]
What matters short-term vs what matters long-term [11:00]
Embracing yourself as you are [14:00]
How to approach a guy in this situation [16:00]
Not taking it personally [17:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	So, Hey guys, with the smart here with the Smart Couple Show Ask Me Anything episodes.
0:26.7	And we have today a question from Lisa, who's asking about penis size and what happens when I lose attraction to my partner.
0:35.4	So we're gonna get into this one. It's pretty juicy and full of some
0:39.7	confronting challenges. So if you're a man or woman who has any struggle with this past or
0:46.0	present I think you're going to find this one helpful. Stay tuned to the very end for a
0:50.8	little action step and thanks for your participation and questions as
0:56.4	always folks.
0:57.6	And you can leave your questions at info at jason-attas.com.
1:03.4	You can also type them into the news feed
1:04.8	when we do a Facebook live, we extract all those questions
1:09.1	and put them in a Google dock,
1:10.2	and then we start chipping away at them to answer them for you, okay?
1:14.0	And we'll probably do a longer episode because I got a little backlog going.
1:18.0	All right, let's get to this one from Lisa.
1:21.0	So here's my question to you and it has to do with today's question. Okay? So my question to you and I really want your feedback so you gotta type something.
1:34.0	It's could be edgy, you might be a little uncomfortable, a little vulnerable.
1:38.2	See if you can type this one. You can pee on me if you want. I prefer a little public answer though because it's
1:46.3	going to be very educational for us. Okay each week I want to try to ask you a question first and see what you got. So here's the question that
1:56.9	has to do with today's question from Lisa. I'm answering a question from Lisa today.
2:01.9	Anyway, here's my question.
2:04.0	Does, this is kind of for the women.
2:07.0	Does size matter?
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