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Relationship School Podcast

SC 82 - How He Got His Wife Back with Ryan Michler

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6981 Ratings

🗓️ 14 December 2016

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Want to hear how one man got his wife back after a separation on the brink of divorce? It's actually quite simple but requires a certain kind of man to be able to follow through with it and execute. If you are a man, this is essential information if your marriage is on the rocks.

SHOWNOTES

  • How & why did Ryan start Order of Man? [6:00]
  • What is the current state of men in general? [7:30]
  • What was the impact of not growing up with a father? [9:00]
  • When did Ryan realize the "honeymoon" phase of marriage was over? [12:00]
  • The two big things that Ryan did to get his wife back. [18:00]
  • Did therapy help Ryan and his wife? [21:30]
  • The huge trap that many men fall into in a marriage. [28:00]
  • The trick to not fall into blame or victimhood. [35:00]
  • Your action step. [42:00]

GUEST BIO

Ryan Michler is a husband, father, Iraqi Combat Veteran, and the Founder of Order of Man. Ryan grew up without a permanent father figure and has seen first-hand how a lack of strong, ambitious, self-sufficient men has impacted society today. He believes many of the world’s most complicated problems could be solved if men everywhere learned how to be better husbands, fathers, businessmen, and community leaders. It has now become his life’s mission to help men across the planet step more fully into their roles as protectors, providers, and presiders over themselves, their families, their businesses, and their communities. You can find him blogging and podcasting at Order of Man where he is working to help men become all they were meant to be. http://www.orderofman.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

But at some point I came to the conclusion that you know what this isn't working and maybe it's really not all her fault

0:08.0

Maybe this is my fault. Maybe I have a part in this

0:12.4

Interesting right? So, Hey, what's going on people?

0:35.0

Hey, what's going on people?

0:36.4

Welcome back to the Smart Couple podcast.

0:38.8

My name's Jason Gatis.

0:39.8

I'm your host, and I'm grateful to be here with you right now. This podcast is

0:46.2

really designed at the core is helping us be who we are through the vehicle of long-term partnership because it's in a long-term

0:56.9

relationship where you come face-to-face with your demons and your bullshit and everything that you've tried to hide.

1:07.0

You will face yourself in a long-term marriage and that's designed so that you can become more of yourself.

1:15.2

You can grow into you even more.

1:16.9

So no matter how intense your partner is or past partner, they're unconsciously, indirectly,

1:24.4

and in whatever way they can helping you be you.

1:27.7

So that's the power of partnership.

1:30.8

And the smart couple plays long-term relationship this way.

1:36.8

This is how you play the game,

1:38.9

because that's the only way to win at this game

1:41.3

and winning means being fulfilled and inspired in your partnership

1:45.3

over many many years. If you don't grow you are dying. If you don't grow you're

1:51.0

calcifying. If you don't grow in your relationship, you're contracting and you're staying

1:56.4

stuck and stagnant.

1:57.9

That's just the way the human organism works.

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