SC 83 - If You Are Bored In Your Relationship - Ellen & Jayson

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2016

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Is your relationship boring or are you boring? Or, better yet, are you just stuck and unsure of how to deepen your relationship? Boredom is a sign that you are missing something, big. Human beings are not boring. Yes, they may have stunted their development, but behind that wall is a massive ocean to explore. Listen up and find out how to get beyond boring.

SHOWNOTES

The piece of chocolate that sparked this podcast episode. [9:00]
The common phrases we here about monogamy? [10:45]
What causes the initial boredom after we get married? [12:00]
The traps you might fall into when feeling bored in your relationship. [17:00]
The 5 steps to take as soon as you notice you're feeling bored in your relationship. [19:00]
The power of the uncomfortable conversation. [21:00]
Your action step. [31:30]

Transcript

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0:15.8	There's a lot of magic with you because I don't feel like that's ending you know there's no like wall that oh yeah I finally reached the summit of Ellen. I know I know who she is you know I can plant my flag in her head or something. That was weird.
0:18.2	Oh, that might hurt. Hi and welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast episode 83. My name is
0:48.2	Jason Gattis. I'm your host and I am on a mission folks to help you learn the class you never got in school, the class on
0:55.3	intimate relationships. Imagine for a moment if you would have learned how to
1:00.4	acknowledge someone after you heard their feelings.
1:03.7	Imagine for a minute that you learned a skill on how to listen to someone in such a way that they felt
1:09.6	seen and understood by you.
1:13.0	Imagine if you would have learned how to work through conflict and interpersonal adversity
1:20.0	and that you were seen as a leader in your peer group because you could deal with people that were fighting and arguing and disagreeing.
1:31.0	You just had this capacity to not get blown out by that and you had the
1:35.6	capacity to help people see things and understand one another and reach win-win solutions.
1:41.6	Just imagine that. Yeah. So that's what I'm here to do and that
1:49.0	really starts with people like you who are listening to the Smart Couple
1:54.0	podcast and people who want to grow and develop themselves.
1:59.4	Because if you want to be good at anything in life, I say a lot you're going to need to grow and take a look at yourself and your blind spots and weaknesses.
2:11.0	So as you know I run the relationship school and we are finished with our first
2:20.1	semester and people are having an awesome time.
2:27.3	They're getting triggered, they're deepening
2:29.8	into who they are, they're seeing their patterns more clearly.
2:35.0	People are incredibly satiated.
2:40.0	Some people are feeling really scared of this newfound skill set or being even more
2:46.6	transparent and truthful in their lives. There's all kinds of rich, very alive experiences with the 30 or so people who are in the school.
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