SC 81 - 87 Year-Old Pro-Sex Feminist Discusses The Female Orgasm - Betty Dodson
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 7 December 2016
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Is the female orgasm that complicated and powerful? It can be for some of us, but in this episode, women's sexuality pioneer and sexologist Betty Dodson offers some extremely practical, no-nonsense advice for women (and men) around the orgasm. Hear some enlightening and very intimate details of what a woman can do to dissolve the shame and step into true enjoyment of an orgasm. From group sex to being witnessed masturbating, this episode is sure to confront you and lift you up.
SHOWNOTES
- How did Betty get first started in teaching sex and orgasm? [8:30]
- What's the current state of feminism and sexuality? [11:00]
- What does a bodysex group do? [12:00]
- Why is this kind of bodysex work important for women? [16:30]
- How often should a woman orgasm to give her vitality? [18:00]
- Have they figured out where the fluid of a G-spot orgasm comes from? [19:00]
- What does Betty think about Orgasmic Meditation (OMing)? [20:00]
- Betty's suggestions on how to experience your first female orgasm. [24:00]
- Does feeling safe with a partner matter affect the quality of the orgasm? [26:00]
- How to create a sex-positive world? [27:30]
- Betty's thoughts on using sex toys for orgasm. [32:00]
- Is monogamy realistic? [34:00]
- Best way to heal from sexual shame & trauma? [36:00]
- Betty's best advice for married couples to revive their sex life. [39:00]
- Your action step. [43:00]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | The limit go on and on and on our level of sexuality is so hate to make you feel badly, |
| 0:09.6 | but we're way beyond which you guys are doing. So, Hey, what's up, Jason Gattis here back with another episode of The Smart Couple |
| 0:40.7 | podcast, Episode 81. |
| 0:45.0 | Wow. |
| 0:46.0 | I hope you enjoyed last week's episode with Trippin Allison. |
| 0:50.0 | I thought that was a really good example of a couple who is in a secure functioning relationship |
| 0:56.4 | who has each other's backs. So go back and listen to episode 80 if you missed it. |
| 1:01.2 | All right, if you're new, welcome. |
| 1:05.0 | This podcast is about having kick ass deep fulfilling relationships |
| 1:12.0 | specifically with one person over time. |
| 1:15.0 | And the cost of not learning how, and what it really takes to get a super inspiring relationship. |
| 1:26.5 | And the bottom line message there is it takes some work. |
| 1:30.0 | You gotta roll up your sleeves and put it some effort in. |
| 1:33.0 | Like anything in life, you get out of it what you put into it. |
| 1:37.0 | All right? |
| 1:38.0 | And it requires both people roll up their sleeves and deal. |
| 1:43.0 | And I use many different analogies, metaphors to describe what happens when one person is doing the work and the other one is not. |
| 1:52.0 | Imagine for a moment... and the other one is not. |
| 1:57.0 | Imagine for a moment being in a boat out at sea and all we had, you and I were in a relationship, |
| 2:00.0 | were two paddles, and you never paddled and I was the only one who paddled the boat. |
| 2:08.0 | Well, we're going to resent each other right? I'm going to be pissed at you for not paddling. You're going to be annoyed |
| 2:15.0 | with me and wanting to just chill out and enjoy the view. But meanwhile, we've got to get somewhere |
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