SC 80 - A Couple's Vulnerable Story of Falling Apart & Getting Stronger Together with Tripp & Alyson

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 30 November 2016

⏱️ 87 minutes

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Summary

A brave smart couple shares their "dark period" and how they got through it. Anyone who has been married for a few years, and then adds in a child to the mix, will pretty much get rocked. Tripp and Alyson share what happened and how they got through it. From their day to day check-ins, emotional distance and meltdowns, to transforming their sex life after kids, you are going to love how this couple rocked it out. And hopefully, you can take a few tips home to your relationship.

SHOWNOTES

The story of how Tripp & Alyson met. [10:00]
Tripp and Alyson's wild first few dates. [16:00]
How reclaim their connection when it's off. [21:30]
How did Tripp learn to be curious? [30:00]
One period that challenged their relationship. [31:00]
What Tripp had to face in himself to get out of his comfort zone. [38:00]
Who did they each reach out to for support during their challenging times? [50:00]
Why you can't rely on your partner to fulfill all your needs. [55:00]
How to keep your sex life alive after kids. [58:00]
Tripp shares his own evolution of his relationship to sex. [1:08:00]
The framework they both set in their wedding vows [1:15:00]
Your action step. [1:23:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	And I think she's more skillful with that than I am I probably I probably slip into that kind of
0:05.1	nastiness more than she would at times but you totally do. heh. Hey, what's up guys?
0:23.0	Hey,
0:24.0	Jason Gatt, back with a Smart Couple podcast. I'm grateful to be here with you right now.
0:41.0	Try saying that to your partner today. Hey, honey, I'm grateful that you're in my life.
0:51.1	And I really am grateful that you, listener, are in my life, because there would be no podcast, right?
0:57.0	Yeah. We wouldn't have a relationship, you and me. So pretty cool that I get to share what I've learned and
1:10.6	what other people have learned with you and you're interested and you want to learn
1:15.9	Pretty damn cool. So yeah, if you don't have a partner
1:20.6	Say that to the closest person in your life. Hey, you, person, I dig you, I appreciate you.
1:27.5	I'm grateful you're in my life. And look him right in the eye, right in the eyeball.
1:35.0	And want to take it another step?
1:39.0	Ask them, hey, can I put my hand on your heart?
1:41.0	I appreciate you tremendously.
1:46.7	And see if you can stay connected to your heart
1:49.0	and your body when you say that.
1:52.4	Okay, that's how we roll here at the Smart Couple podcast and that's the kind of
1:56.6	partnership we want, an inspired one. And here we teach you that having an inspired one takes effort.
2:07.0	You gotta roll up your sleeves.
2:10.0	Now it doesn't have to be drudgery.
2:12.0	A lot of people ask me, well when is it too hard? Good question. We have a podcast about that.
2:19.4	Episode 57, so go check that out.
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