If you make your wedding vows based on an outdated model of marriage, i.e. some tradition,

you're going to be up Shit Creek. Thank you. Hey what's up and welcome back to another episode of the Relationship Schools Smart Couple

podcast. I'm your host, Jason Gatis. What's up? And I'm here to assert that relationship fulfillment comes with hard work.

That's what this podcast is really about.

And so we interview, couples sometimes, relationship experts,

I just talk, and I bring on my wife occasionally,

and we try to help you have more fulfilling long-term partnership.

That's our jam, right?

And this is really for growth development oriented people, not people who want

band-aids. Let me be clear. Band-aidids are you're in relationship pain, you just want it to go away and quick fix and, ah, we had a therapy session or something, or we, I read a blog post and I got some

dopamine and then all of a sudden I didn't think about my pain anymore.

That's kind of not what we're up to guys. This is more like, hey, did you know that it

takes hard work to have an awesome relationship just like anything in life, an awesome business, an awesome body, an

awesome health, awesome financial resources, it takes effort. So that's why we

tell you, hey it's a good idea to be into growth and development.

Because if you're into growth and development, then you're the kind of person who's willing to work on it.

So thanks.

Today I want to jam about wedding vows. Thanks

Casey for the suggestion. Casey from now Philly, kind of Michigan, kind of Alabama.

Anyway, thanks dude.

So I just googled wedding vows just for fun and the first entry that came up was kind of like how to write

wedding vows and samples and you think oh that's pretty cute let's check that

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