There's going to be people in your life that doubt you, that judge the shit out of you,

that tell you you're not enough, and that feels terrible, but it's your perception of

latching on to that that's the issue. Welcome back to an Ask Me Anything episode of the

Relationship School Smart Couple podcast. What's up folks? I got a couple questions lined up that really need attention here.

And then I want to make a couple comments about human beings, right?

I just want to thank everybody for your questions.

I haven't been getting as many as I just found out there are.

And we're learning about a process with that with my team. So anyway,

thanks for your patience, everybody. And I'm going to tear into this right now. And the first question is from Nicole, right?

Nicole listened to the interview with Dan Savage a while back and she's got a couple

comments that I thought were

Enlightenment and I need to speak to one of them.

So she says, Nicole says, I found your interview with Savage to be highly

in her enlightening and incredibly emotional.

As a married straight woman in a monogamous marriage with children,

I felt very triggered by the concept of enough.

Right, am I enough?

I'm constantly struggling to feel like I am enough of anything and I feel like your

podcast has started to help me feel settled into an idea that monogamy and marriage

can provide enough for both partners if it is viewed as a journey and a goal.

This interview ripped open some pretty deep and vulnerable wounds surrounding being enough.

Any you guys feel that way?

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