learning how to handle your own shit and theirs when you get activated under stress.

That's part of partnership, guys, whether you like it or not. the Hey, what is up and welcome back to another episode of the Relationship Schools Smart Couple Podcast. I'm your host

Jason Gatis and I'm grateful to be here with you. This podcast is for you if you want to grow through relationship, if you want to face

yourself in the context of the relationships in your life.

If you want to learn about yourself

in this crazy dance called partnership and intimacy.

Okay, in this episode we're going to get into conflict.

That's right, we're going to fight, me and you.

Just kidding.

I'm actually going to do a three-part series here on conflict, partly because it is so vital.

I've done episodes on conflict before, and I really wanted to come back in and we'll continue to talk about

conflict because it's the thing that people suck at the most in long-term relationships.

It's also the thing that tears families apart

and friendships apart and has people feeling really hurt, betrayed, left, lost, you know, just stabbed

in the back.

So much comes up for us in regards to conflict.

And I am wanting to build a better world

by giving people tools to navigate conflict. And that's one of the biggest things we learn here at the relationship school

is how to do conflict well, okay, because it's not gonna not happen. It's always gonna be a part of your life. Whether you like it or not, just

look at your own experience. There's been conflict with other people since probably you were

born or sometime in your childhood. It's just part of life, right?

So do you want to be a mature person that can handle conflict and is a go-to resource in your community as someone who can handle it,

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