SC 144 - Finding His Wife & Creating His Dream Relationship - Dan Doty
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 27 July 2017
⏱️ 73 minutes
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Summary
Want to know one man's approach to calling in the one? How did he find his dream relationship? What exactly did he do? Then, how did he create the dream relationship even after it got really dark? Find out how to find and create a solid relationship through one man's inspiring story. Once again we learn a lesson from a man who was willing to face himself and go work on what he needed to.
SHOWNOTES
- Dan’s story [4:00]
- Tools Dan and his wife use when they’re facing challenges in relationship [13:00]
- When to get help with relationship-trouble outside of the relationship [14:00]
- How getting clear on what you want on an online dating site can help you meet your dream man or woman [19:00]
- What Dan did to get himself prepared for marriage [20:00]
- The danger of pushing your own values onto your partner [29:00]
- What prevented Dan from bailing after two weeks of non-stop conflict with his wife [34:00]
- How Dan got into personal growth and men’s work [39:00]
- Dealing with stigma around men’s work [47:00]
- How to bring spirituality to men’s work [51:00]
- How a traditional ‘man’s man’ can relate to the more ‘feeling-centered’ side of men’s work [53:00]
- The shift in men’s culture and the rise of personal-growth for men [57:00]
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| 0:00.0 | The scariest thing for me at that time after things got hard was, you know, did we choose wrong? So, Hey, what's going on? |
| 0:25.0 | Jason Gatis here, back with another episode of the relationship schools, Smart Couple, |
| 0:32.0 | Podcast. That is right. We are smart here. Smart has nothing to do with |
| 0:37.7 | academia by the way. We're talking about Street smart in it when it comes to relationships. |
| 0:45.2 | That's the kind of smart that we're trying to get you to become in yourself. A smart person is one who says yes to conflict and stops running away |
| 0:57.4 | from their relationship problems. That's just smart guys if you want a great |
| 1:01.2 | relationship right? Dumb is continuing to run away from your problems |
| 1:07.0 | and to not take any responsibility |
| 1:09.0 | and point the finger at other people. |
| 1:11.0 | That's just plain dumb. |
| 1:12.0 | So, we here at this smart couple do our |
| 1:15.9 | best to educate you with practical tips and resources and hacks on how to have a |
| 1:22.2 | great relationship. That's what we're about. And if you are new, I'm psyched to have you here. If you're returning, welcome back. We hear at the |
| 1:36.0 | podcast like to interview lots of different types of people from normal everyday |
| 1:41.4 | folks, couples, relationship experts, |
| 1:44.3 | neuroscientists, sexverts, and the like. |
| 1:48.2 | My wife and I get on here sometimes |
| 1:49.9 | and talk about a relationship, |
| 1:51.7 | and obviously I answer your questions as well. |
| 1:55.0 | So I think there's a fair amount of variety here and I'm guessing this will serve you in your |
| 2:00.0 | long-term relationship aspirations. |
| 2:05.0 | Your long-term relationship aspirations. |
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