SC 122 - How to Make Online Dating Work For You - Evan Marc Katz

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 10 May 2017

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Dating advice on a relationship podcast? Yes, enough people said they wanted that, so we're experimenting with our first dating episode. Evan Marc Katz brings some amazingly simple and practical advice to the online dating scene. There are loads of great tips here to turn dumb luck into a skill. Singles will benefit, but there's some practical relationship advice in here as well.

- How to have higher quality first dates [13:00]
- The ‘2, 2, 2’ rule for better connection through online dating [15:00]
- The power in being passive [23:00]
- Gender roles in modern dating [24:00]
- Why you don't want a 50/50 relationship [26:00]
- Balancing chemistry and compatibility [29:00]
- The difference between 'Compromising' and 'Settling' [33:00]
- Fighting vs problem-solving in relationship [36:00]
- What if you're dating someone who's not into personal growth? [48:00]
- Why 'Just be yourself' is bad advice [46:00]
- Why you should be 'Slow to hire, quick to fire' [50:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	The idea is you're establishing a connection on your site beyond,
0:05.0	hey, what's up? Not much, you want to meet? Sure. That's not,
0:10.0	that's not the basis for a first day. Hi and welcome back to the relationship school's Smart Couple
0:36.4	Podcast episode number 122. Welcome if you are new and welcome back if you are joining us again.
0:45.0	If you're new this podcast is all about getting a great relationship
0:50.0	through the vehicle of personal development.
0:53.0	We assert that it's going to be hard for you to have a sustainable,
0:59.0	fulfilling, inspired partnership over many years
1:02.0	if you don't put in some effort and look at your own
1:04.9	shit. You didn't learn about relationships in a formal training in school and
1:11.2	neither did I. Instead you learned from the big people. You watched like a
1:18.8	hawk and then you emulated the big people and then you got what you're currently getting, right?
1:26.2	Which is maybe challenges in a relationship
1:30.2	that you don't quite know how to navigate. So it's always surprising to me, right,
1:35.0	that one of the most important aspects of our lives
1:37.5	is just assumed that we know how,
1:40.0	or we'll figure it out.
1:41.0	And yeah, most of us do learn through the school of hard knocks, but I would argue that that's usually doesn't get you very far in a long-term relationship. It gets you plenty of friends and you know we all know how to
1:54.3	communicate on some level but when it comes to the long road most of us are gonna meet
2:00.9	our edge and be shown where we're weak and insecure and have inadequate
2:08.3	tools for the job.
2:10.6	So it's my aim and my mission to provide that education to you.
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