SC 109 - Masculine Woman Dating A Feminine Man

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2017

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

If you are a more "masculine" woman, chances are you'll find yourself with a more "feminine" man. Is this a problem? Not at all. In fact, if you understand basic polarity principles, this can work to your advantage. Unless of course, you want to keep blaming your partner. There is something simpler you can do. Listen for more info...

QUESTION:
Can you speak to male/female polarity dynamics? Particularly when the female partner tends to have more of a masculine energy in the relationship - in terms of being type-A, taking action, wanting to get things done - while the male partner has more of a passive, laid back, feminine energy.
As the female partner with the more masculine energy, I find this dynamic really frustrating and wonder if it means I’ll be signing up for life where I will be doing most of the heavy lifting around all the practical dynamics of daily life?
I was wondering if this dynamic would be too difficult to sustain in a satisfactory way, although we are both growth-oriented, so that part is not a concern.

Why we get triggered by our opposites [3:00]
You go first (don’t wait for your partner to change) [4:00]
Learning to own what you’ve disowned for a better relationship [8:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	So, Hey guys, welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast. What's up? Men and women.
0:28.2	And wherever you are on the gender spectrum in there.
0:35.0	Welcome back and welcome. These shorter episodes I typically record on a Wednesday Facebook live at 10 a.m.
0:42.0	if you ever want to join us and there are questions
0:47.3	from listeners like you that I answer and I have fun with these because if you're live then there's a way to take the
0:57.7	question a little deeper if you resonate or connect with the question and you happen to be on the Facebook or Instagram live,
1:05.0	you can ask clarifying questions about the main question.
1:09.0	So that's kind of what we do on the Ask Me Anything episodes which come out Monday nights.
1:15.0	All right?
1:15.8	And I'm doing this the entire year.
1:17.6	It's my goal and I'm trucking along and doing it.
1:21.5	So having fun with it. These are also posted on YouTube, the full video,
1:28.6	if you ever want to just watch it as a video. And then we cut them up into one minute or shorter episodes. My team
1:38.0	member Dan does a great job of that and edits these down into little Instagram one minute videos that I throw on
1:44.0	Facebook sometimes so that's a little context about these Monday
1:48.1	episodes the Ask Me Anything episodes all right just so you have it. Cool. Now, in this episode, I get a question from a woman who is
2:00.0	frustrated with feeling like the man in the relationship and feeling like her guy is in
2:07.6	more of the passive role and so we talk about the masculine feminine dynamics.
2:14.0	And this plays out all the time.
2:16.0	Whether you like the terms masculine or feminine or you believe in that or whatever,
2:21.0	it's just straight up my experience that we all have
2:24.2	masculine and feminine inside of us and it's a continuum and yet usually we lead
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