when the stakes are high and your heart is invested and someone challenges your values and how you see the world and what you care about, you get pissed. Hi there, relationship, geeks and freaks. Welcome back to the Smart Couple

podcast episode 106. I'm your host Jason Gatis and I'm pleased to have your attention right now.

Today I want to talk about one of the most important aspects of relationship.

I'll get into that in a moment.

If you are new, welcome. This podcast is really

about having an indestructible partnership over time and you need to become a smart couple in order to do that and by smart here we

mean you just need to learn how right that? That's it. And if you don't learn how, you of course are relying on your history

and your animal brain. And that doesn't get people very far in partnership and

since you probably don't want to die alone like I don't and you want to have

community around you and you want to have a couple very close people and you want to have one maybe

one person that has your back well you got to learn the dance of intimacy

all right and if you're returning of intimacy. All right?

And if you're returning to the Smart Couple podcast,

thanks for listening again, thanks for your reviews,

and welcome back.

It's really good to have you here.

Hopefully you're enjoying a nice run, commute, walk,

sip of tea, wine, or whatever you do

while you're listening to me.

And if you're multitasking, that's fine.

I listen to podcasts multitasking sometimes, but if you really want to

tune in, slow down to one speed, regular speed, don't try to do the one and a half speed,

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