SC 10 - 4 Premarital Conversations You Must Have - Jay Cadet
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 16 August 2015
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
This episode is key for millennials who are about to get married. Too many people skip this conversation prior to marriage.
IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn:
- How to tell the difference between honesty and reckless honesty.
- The three criteria of honest communication
- How to offer honesty without being critical.
- One question to ask before saying anything ‘honest’
- How honest communication without shaming can move your relationship forward
- Learning to receive feedback well
- The 4 conversations every unmarried couple needs to have (16:45)
- How to create space for honest feedback
- Dealing with arguments and conflict in an effective way
- Knowing when and when not to seek professional help
- How to have the ‘money’ conversation, especially for young people
- Keeping things fresh and alive for the long-term
- The importance of being friends with other couples
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Jason Gatis here back with the Smart Couple Podcast. As you know this |
| 0:15.7 | podcast is really about finding unconventional ways to get at our relationship problems and tackle them in a way that has us stronger |
| 0:29.6 | on the other side. |
| 0:31.5 | And so we, here we see relationship as this really powerful vehicle to get to know |
| 0:41.7 | ourselves better and to get what we want more effectively with our spouse or lover. So here you're going to learn from a lot of different people, experts on |
| 0:58.3 | relationship and marriage, everyday people and myself coming from my own experience which I talk very openly about as you know. |
| 1:08.0 | So in this session I'm psyched to have Jay Cadet. He's a New York City-based relationship coach and I like |
| 1:18.8 | what this guy brings. He's got some great nuggets and we're focusing in on the conversation that couples need to have |
| 1:27.4 | before they get married. |
| 1:29.6 | So this episode is for you if you're about to get married because it's a big commitment and |
| 1:35.5 | Jay's got some great nuggets for you so check it out. Welcome to another episode of the smart couple. I'm really psyched today because I got Jay Cadet here. |
| 1:52.0 | And he's a guy who specializes in hold on I'm just |
| 1:56.8 | getting my notes here it seems to me Jay if I have it right you're really |
| 2:01.0 | trying to help people get their relationship dialed |
| 2:03.6 | before they get married is that right? Absolutely. Yeah okay we're gonna dive |
| 2:08.0 | into that but I think that is such a key conversation because you know how many so many relationships and marriages |
| 2:14.7 | end in divorce and people just you know straight up aren't equipped in my judgment |
| 2:19.9 | they don't really know what they're getting into. |
| 2:23.0 | But I want to just say a few words about you here. |
| 2:26.0 | So Jay is a relationship coach. |
| 2:27.0 | He's on a mission to help unmarried millennial couples |
| 2:30.0 | learn how to better communicate and compromise so they can feel not just ready but |
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